The holiday season is a time to express our appreciation
for those we love. Expressed through travel, gifts, phone calls or cards,
Christmas provides us the opportunity to reinforce the relationships that we
hold most dear.
During my law enforcement years, the holidays were known
as the “silly season”. There was a noticeable uptick in family disturbances and
suicides. Those suffering hardship or alienation could have their wounds laid
bare by a season devoted to love, friends, family and gifts. Despondency and
alcohol would often lead to disastrous results.
Christmas affords us the opportunity to look for those
who may feel isolated and let them know that they are not alone. The up side of
Island Park is that it’s a small community and difficult to go unnoticed. Take
a moment to listen and observe. Someone is spending the holidays in isolation.
Offering a small gift, a holiday meal or even a kind
work and a hug may be enough to help them get through this time of year. No one
should feel invisible. They may present a hardened exterior but it is a
defensive shield to avoid disappointment. Make an effort to crack that shell.
To those who may be the recipient of a Christmas
kindness, accept the effort graciously. People don’t extend themselves for fear
of rejection. Cut them a break and you will find that the effort will make the
season better for all involved.
Christmas is showing love to each other as the Lord
showed love for us. Make the most of the season.
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